Why You Are Here: A Journey of Self-Discovery and Letting Go
- Lula Comanescu
- Apr 3
- 2 min read
Updated: May 6
There comes a point when nothing external feeds you anymore. The ambitions, the relationships, the applause—they all fall flat. You stand in the silence, stripped of illusions, realising that nothing outside of you has ever truly moved you.
The chase for more—more success, more love, more validation—has only left you drained. You ran after mirages, believing they would make you feel whole. But now, all that remains is emptiness. A quiet voice whispers, I can’t do this anymore. A part of you, lost and aching, asks, Why am I even here?
And so, you turn to the Creator and ask, Give me one reason to stay.
You avoid your own reflection, fearing the truth staring back at you. But deep down, you know: You are the reason. You are the only one who can bring yourself back to life.
The illusion dissolves. You see it clearly now—nothing external has ever given you meaning. The titles, the achievements, the people… they were never the source of your fulfilment. It was always you. You created the feeling. You attached it to a person, a place, a goal. And now that the illusion has shattered, you cannot unsee it.
At first, the emptiness is suffocating. The dreams that once fueled you now seem weightless. But then, something shifts. You begin to understand: it was never about the outcome—it was always about the process.
Not about reaching a destination, but about embracing the journey. The struggles. The lessons. The closed doors that guided you toward something greater.
And the greatest lesson? If the process depletes you—if you are only in it for the end result—then maybe it’s time to let go. To surrender to something that feels effortless. Not because it lacks challenges, but because it aligns with your soul. Where you are not striving, but being.
When you surrender to the process, life stops feeling like a burden. It becomes a playground. And as you move with ease, meaning finds you.
I know—it’s terrifying to let go of the grand goals, especially the ones you never even set for yourself. The ones you pursued for approval, for belonging, for an illusion of safety. But don’t you want to experience what it’s like to live for you—just once?
Don’t you want to know why you are here, in this body, in this lifetime? Don’t you want to taste life—not for others, but for yourself? Because deep down, you know—you haven’t even begun to experience this world for you.
You have been gifted back your life.
These delays, these so-called failures—they are not here to break you. They are redirections, guiding you back to yourself. They have stripped you bare so you can finally start living your life. Not the life expected of you. Not the life shaped by external validation. But a life that is truly, undeniably, yours.
This is your moment of pure honesty. A rare gift not everyone receives.
This is your moment to rewrite everything.
A blank page awaits.
Are you ready to experience true happiness?
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