Overcoming Fear of Change: A Journey from Illusion to Expansion
- Lula Comanescu
- Apr 9
- 2 min read
Updated: May 6
Most times, we’re afraid of change.
The mind fears what it cannot predict—looping through negative scenarios that rarely, if ever, come to pass. When our nervous system isn’t prepared to hold space for the mind’s fears, we become easily trapped in illusion. We cling to familiar comforts, even if they’re false—grasping for what the mind believes will bring relief.
Sometimes, we even fall back into toxic patterns, just to feel safe.
That’s how deeply uncomfortable change can feel. So unsettling, it can pull us into lower timelines—until our nervous system evolves the capacity to hold a new experience.

But here’s the truth:Change is not for the mind.Change is the soul’s desire to expand.It is the ache of becoming. It is nourishment not taken through the mouth, but through the open, unguarded heart.
Change is not the enemy. It is the passage.
Yes, it can feel like chaos—an unraveling of the life you once knew, a shedding of the skin you once called home. The transition from one timeline to the next often feels like being suspended in midair, directionless and raw. But if anything in this world is true, it’s this:
Nothing stays the same. Everything is always changing.
And that’s not something to fear—it’s something to trust.
Because change doesn’t ask you to have it all figured out. It asks you to have faith.Faith in your process.Faith in your capacity to rise.Faith that you are supported—seen and held, both internally and externally.
But above all, change asks for allowance.Allowance to be vulnerable while you transform.Allowance to receive support without shame.Allowance to grow at your own pace.
The more you soften, the more you open, the more you realize—You are not alone.People around you are holding you, each in their own way.Life is supporting you, even when it feels uncertain.
And slowly, gently, you begin to feel it:
You are changing.
Not because you forced it,
But because you allowed it.
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