Letting Go with Grace: How to Embrace Change and Trust the Unknown
- Lula Comanescu
- Apr 9
- 2 min read
Updated: May 6
In moments of change—when life calls for surrender—it is essential to honour yourself and your emotions. I express myself through speech, through words, through the sharing of my experiences. In a way, I romanticise life, embracing each moment as a story unfolding.
Surrendering to experience means allowing yourself to flow with it, to embrace what arises, and to acknowledge what your emotions are yearning to express. And perhaps, when the time feels right, you will share your journey with the world.

As an empath, I often feel experiences before they manifest in the physical realm. It is an intuitive knowing, yet without a clear vision of how events will unfold. Sometimes, the intensity of these emotions amplifies reality, making it overwhelming. To sense the future before it happens—especially when it signals separation—can be both a gift and a challenge. The Universe asks us to surrender, to trust the unfolding, even when clarity is absent.
We are souls on a path of unique evolution. The connections we experience with others are fleeting, mere moments in the grand scheme of existence. And yet, when we are fully immersed in them, they feel infinite. When we accept this truth, we can love more deeply, let go with greater ease, and experience connection without attachment—purely from a place of presence.
Right now, as I sit here, my fingers touching the keyboard, I write from my heart, sharing my truth with whoever may one day read these words. And yet, in this moment, there is no audience—only me, present with myself, allowing my soul to speak freely.
I have never experienced such a profound transition before—relationships, experiences, and cycles are closing in ways I never expected. They have simply run their course. And yet, I have no clear direction for what comes next. I don’t know who will read this. All I know is that a significant chapter of my life is ending, and with it comes the release of people, places, and ways of being that no longer align.
I no longer have the energy to wait for those who are unwilling to grow. I am done chasing connections that lack depth, waiting for responses that never come, or trying to pull others along on a journey they are not ready to take. Growth should not feel like dragging people forward—it should be a shared expansion, a mutual openness to evolution.
For so long, I was consumed by my career and my own insecurities, unaware of the lack of meaningful connections in my life. I never truly looked. And now, I ask myself—why? Was I afraid of my own growth? Was I resisting change? Most likely.
Now, I choose differently. I seek connections that align with my path—people unafraid of growth, unafraid of expansion. I release the fear of moving forward alone, trusting that in walking my path, I will effortlessly attract those who are meant to walk alongside me.
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